21 weeks pregnant with twins
Time seems to be flying by these days. From preparing for wedding season to start up in a couple weeks to running errands, to being out sick for a whole week (nothing like sickness to make you REALLY grateful for good health!), to organizing my office in preparation for the nursery, to photographing babies…phew! Reminding myself to take time to rest and do something that nourishes my soul each day is a must!
Pregnancy updates? A couple weeks ago I began having intense pain in my lower abdomen when I took walks. I called the nurse and she said it’s likely round ligament pain and muscles stretching…but that it’s definitely my body telling me something, so I need to back off on walking. Which was a discouraging piece of news to hear, because I was finally getting used to the idea of walking as exercise rather than running! The nurse also suggested I buy a belly support band to see if that’s helpful when I walk, and it’s like magic. (magic in the comfort department, but it’s most certainly NOT convenient or discreet unless I’m wearing lots of layers!) I was able to walk the Trolly Run with Grant and one of my good friends, with no pain at all. Praise God!
Otherwise, I’ve been feeling really great. Sleep has become more challenging and my feet get swollen very quickly, but both of those are expected and are nothing to complain about. No strange food cravings to report!
As the text in the photo above says, I am getting looks and questions all the time now in public. Two questions I received today from different people 1) “Are you due soon?” {what?! am I really looking that large? Yikes!} and 2) “Are you having a boy?” {well that’s a strange question – do I look like I’m having a boy?!} It’s also funny to see people’s responses when I tell them I’m having twins…”Oh wow, then you have a VERY high-risk pregnancy” {not exactly what you want to say to a woman pregnant with twins!} and “whoa, be prepared, you’re going to get HUGE!” {haha, yes I know, but also not so kind to point out!} I’m sure the comments and questions will become more and more as these next few months continue. I have yet to have a stranger touch my belly, thank goodness, and I’m not looking forward to that day!
Yes, we have chosen names we love, and no, we will not be making those names public! :) Besides, there are still a few months for us to change our minds!
I will always remember the moment Grant felt a kick for the first time. He let out a funny yell and then was grossed out, because it felt like an alien inside me :) Haha! The next crazy milestone will be when he can SEE a kick from the outside!
And last update…their cribs have been ordered!
Tina - So glad you’re doing well overall! You’re the cutest pregnant lady ever:) :) I can’t wait to see those babies of yours in a few short months!
Gail - Oh hon, I love reading this! Isn’t it crazy what people will say to you? I found the worst to be when I was overdue (something that, with twins, you won’t end up experiencing!) But yes, hold on to your hat, because the comments will keep coming! I’m sorry the walking is already getting hard — just be kind to yourself. I found pregnancy a time to enjoy still being physical but not beating myself up over doing easier workout routines (prenatal yoga and light cardio and walking over running). Also, Braxton Hicks did NOT feel like I expected them to (my belly got really tight in my ab area…it wasn’t pain or anything down low, which is how I’d always thought they’d feel!)
Also, this is random, but I’ve been meaning to tell you to do yourself a favor and order this hoodie wrap from Old Navy: http://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=43027&vid=1&pid=545995002
Oh my gosh, I LIVED in this wrap in my last two months of pregnancy and also post partum. It’s SUPER comfy, great to wear over nursing tanks and the pockets are SUPER convenient when the babies come (for your cell phone–which you’ll find yourself using quite often for lots of different reasons — to pacifiers to all sorts of things….anyway, my No. 1 pregnancy wear recommendation!)
Can’t wait to see how CUTE you’re going to look as that bump grows! So happy for you and Grant!
Kimber - Just saw identical twin baby girls today who are doing really well and developing beautifully despite being born early :-)
You are looking great and healthy! Love your updates. Praying for you!
Kimber
Aunt Susan - Grandma and Grandpa Roen or should I say greatgrandparents saw and read this post!!! We are enjoying your updates!!!
Renee @ Fit For Motherhood - Oh you look adorable. I definitely feel your pain literally, when I walk. :) My back has starting aching as well. The joys of carrying twins!!
That is so exciting you have names picked out. We cannot decide. Nothing has hit me. I am not loving any names so far. Who knows, maybe they will be Baby A and Baby B for life. :)
Candice - You should do a series of “in-progress” posts of house projects (like the nursery) like Kevin and Layla do on The Lettered Cottage! I love those!
Carol Talley - Will you be doing these posts every week? I really enjoy seeing the bump updates and reading your inspiring words! How sweet!
Allison Marie - Hi Carol, Thank you for the comment! I have been doing them every other week, but at some point will switch to weekly. :)
Allison Marie - Candice, I just might – thank you for the inspiration & encouragement! The nursery dresser was most definitely a work in progress, so I’ll be posting about that for sure!
Allison Marie - Thanks, Renee! I love that we get to follow each other’s journeys :) I can’t wait to hear what names you’ll choose! I’m sure they’ll be beautiful!
Allison Marie - Aww that’s so wonderful! :) I can’t wait for all of you to meet them in a few shorts months!